hello there!!! i am an above average guy looking to one day find my one and only lady and be her one and only man...

i am a guy who likes many things and here's a list of a few:

country music, and classic rock, are my favorite types of music, but contemporary christian, and anything logical i can handle... i like to workout, bowl, and play golf, but don't get a chance to do that much... i write poetry, sing rather well, and can sketch and design at above an above average level... i'm english, welsh, easterrn cherokee, and blackfoot indian...

i go to church in wadsworth and would like to find someone who believes like i do... in case you didn't notice before, i don't smoke or drink and prefer that you don't either!!! shorter women with longer hair is a plus, but honesty is a must!!!

i am an alcoholic with a sobriety date of 1-16-1998,... i control my destiny and you control your own... what happens today is what you make of it, we cannot control people, places, and things... the only thing we control is ourselves...

i hope you find who you are looking for and maybe i'll also find my true love but i will not settle for just anyone...

Widder